It's seems strange now, coming down my drive through the woods and not seeing at least one sailboat sitting idly under a tarp, waiting patiently for its next misadventure. For 9 months, when I was out of compliance with June's one boat at a time rule, there had been the beginning of a small fleet.
Seanility and Guppy are both gone now, but the absence of boats in our yard, doesn't guarantee complete harmony on the home front. Aspirations for a larger boat keep the tensions just below the surface.
June's parents lived well into their 90's and I'm confident she will too. For that reason, she's rightly concerned about making our nest egg last for the duration - whatever that may prove to be. I, on the other hand, have parents that didn't survive their 70's and had little to cheer about the last 10+ years of their lives.
As a consequence, I've always been a live for the moment kind of guy and June is a plan for the future type. After forty seven years of marriage, we're arrived at an uneasy truce. I've learned to be more frugal and she in turn has learned to enjoy splurging on the rare occasion.
Buying a larger boat might be easier if June shared my love for being on the water. The fact that she doesn't, makes it all seem a bit selfish on my part. And, I understand that it is. But, still I want to find a boat that she might enjoy occasionally.
Boy, that last statement has a deja vu written all over it. I remember buying a 24' SeaRay Weekender years ago with that same thought in mind. It had a cabin with a v-berth, alcohol stove, refrigerator and a head. All the comforts of home, sort of. Heading out Lighthouse Point inlet, June's first question would be, "When are we coming back?" It took me nearly 10 years to learn that she wasn't interested, no matter what boat I had. Therefore, my last power boat was a 20' Boston Whaler Outrage center console open fisherman.
With the sailboat, however, my personal requirements don't differ that much from what I imagine might be more appealing to her. A roomy, stable boat that's easy to single hand, and comfortable to overnight on for a few days at a time. I confess that I harbor no illusions that the overnight on for a few days a time requirement is at all important to June.
Please excuse my little exercise in self-justification here. I'm just practicing.


